Bella Vrondos is a model and mom of three who has over 19,000 followers on her Instagram page @bellatrixia. She regularly posts about her everyday life and on photoshoots. Being a model, fashion is a very big part of her identity and Vrondos is not afraid of tight clothing and makeup! She even owns a fashion boutique and designs lingerie!
However, Bella was recently “mom-shamed” after she wore a tight, beige dress that showed off her cleavage to pick up her kids from school. Other parents said the outfit was highly inappropriate for a school pick-up. Some even wrote comments such as “shouldn’t have worn that dress” and she should “cover her boobs.”
Bella felt embarrassed and said ever since she had plastic surgery (breast implants) the other mothers have been very judgement towards her. She said : “As soon as I got a breast augmentation I was viewed differently by most of the other mums.”
Other mothers are even making rude assomptions about how Bella spends her money : “Someone said to me that they’d rather spend their money on their children.” Bella is trying to raise awareness that being a mother doesn’t mean giving up on yourself.
She is also reassuring everybody that she loves her children dearly: “But just assuming I don’t spend my money on my kids is ridiculous,” said the mother of three.
“My kids think that I am the best person on the planet; they look at all the other mums and they wonder why they’re not like me.” said Bella.
We teach our kids that bullying is wrong and that includes cyber-bullying, so why are moms doing it on social media? We should lead by example!
What do you personally think of Bella’s outfit? Do you think there should be a “dress-code” for school pick-ups?